Respect for referees is a core rugby value. Usually only the captain (and sometimes a vice-captain) should speak to the referee, calmly and at appropriate moments, to ask for clarification rather than argue.
Do’s and don’ts
| Do | Don’t |
|---|---|
| Address the referee as “Sir” or “Ma’am” or by name | Shout or swear at officials |
| Ask for clarification during stoppages | Surround the referee |
| Let the captain speak for the team | Argue about every decision |
| Accept decisions and move on | Show dissent through gestures |
Consequences
Dissent can lead to penalties being marched forward 10 metres, cards, or disciplinary action.
Laws referenced follow World Rugby’s Laws of the Game for rugby union; rugby league, sevens and domestic competitions can differ, so check the current laws for your competition.
Frequently asked questions
Who can talk to the referee in rugby?
Usually the captain.
What happens if you argue with the referee?
You risk penalties, cards or bans.
Why is rugby known for respecting referees?
Respect is a core value of the sport’s culture.






